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A short talk with the lady dating a married man

“He is so damn fiiiiiiiiine”, well yeah girl he is but it still doesn’t change the fact that he is NOT YOURS.

A few of my sister -friends have fallen in love with married men, and I must admit I have come across the temptation a number of times, the struggle can get hard out here. There are a couple of reasons for dating a married man, it could be due to:

1.      Simply being a lover of things( yes like you love things lol)

2.       You have so called “daddy issues”, due to an absent father- figure in your life and you find yourself attracted to older men.

3.      He was just that loser of a guy who approached you and wasn’t wearing his ring or it was on the right-hand side but you genuinely never noticed it and you fell in love with him without knowing he’s married or

4.      You knew he was married, but fell in love with him ANYWAYS, because I mean, he was just so good looking, he BOUGHT you and your honeys drinks the first time you met him, he took you shopping, spoilt you rotten, said the right words at the right time, he smelt so  good and he cared so much.

Of course he will because another woman has been behind him to make sure he is the best man he can be, he understands women inside and out because he has become one with a woman who unfortunately happens to be his wife. You will be simply reaping the benefits of another woman. In a nutshell he is a complete man because of another woman. God designed marriage so that one helps to complete the other. Now you have become part of that “sIn” because of the “I”, selfish enough to be the reason for breaking up that home, I would criticize the man right now, but this is a letter to the mistresses. Do you know what a divorce can do to a family? Yet alone to your current or future family?

My friend was telling me about some chick who updated her status and said she is becoming comfortable with being the side chick, and I was like… what!

Some married men may “love” you if that is actually possible. But most of them will ‘hit the road jack’ after receiving the cookie from the cookie jar, and of course the obvious will happen, you are left dirty, used, betrayed and miserable because he played you, and ironically he is probably at the school netball benches cheering on his daughter, yet he has hurt someone else’s daughter and at the same time holding his wife’s hand and smiling at her yet couldn't hold yours in public. You see, it was never worth it.

As long as he won’t leave his Mrs for you, stay away because he knows where his heart, loyalty and stability lies, and even if he did he will probably do the same to you years down the line. Be spontaneous and love but just be wise about it. Let your man be yours, even though sometimes you will share him with other women, because sometimes men don’t know how to behave, and it is not okay. Just love yourself enough not to be that girl who is crying over a married man. That woman who was there before you will be there after you, trust me, so pick yourself up, build yourself and let your king find you because you might miss him whilst playing around with a taken one.

Beyonce is NOT your Jesus

 

Ironic how Drake named one of his tracks “Girls love Beyonce” and now Beyonce has become a religion, a god basically. I don’t know about you but this is all getting out of hand, how can the created like you and me be made a god instead of the Creator. So many of us have heard about the new church that a few women who love Beyonce have made a church where they literally worship Beyonce as their god. This is an Atlanta church called the National Church of Bey. The members get together and sing themselves some of Beyonce’s hits. Minister Diva” Pauline John Andrews says Beyonce is divine deity meaning Beyonce will transcend back to the spirit once her work here on Mother Earth has been completed. The church even has a commercial and in May a 23-year old committed suicide for Beyonce. To me she seemed like a sacrifice, the devil needs to stop playing with people’s minds.

Now apparently she will have her own bible and it will be or is already called “Beyble”, when I was telling someone about this they were like that is very ironic because Babel in the Bible is actually a place of confusion, it is called the Tower of Babel. To be honest these ladies are in a state of confusion. I mean what will be written in Beyonce’s bible, I can’t imagine a service “can everyone please turn  their Beybels to Chapter JayZ 1vs 3 and it reads we be all night, verse 2 drunk in love, vs 4 I woke up like this; flawless. To me this does not make sense and it is of great blasphemy.

 

 

You see if Beyonce truly loved them she would care about those women’s salvation, and if she loved God more than herself she would have told the world to stop loving her but worship the Savior because she is just human and makes fault like everyone else. I for one will not lie, Beyonce was my favorite celebrity when I was in primary school, I was those girls who collected images of her and tried to be her. My other friends will praise Mary-Kate and Ashleigh and I remember my other friend Jadene adored Avril Lavinge, we were so brainwashed and actually called ourselves celebrity names and desired to be like them. I remember a woman who used to worship Britney spears around 2004 and decided to shave her head like her, there was once an incident of a woman who loved Michael Jackson so much that she decided to have plastic surgery to look just like him. We try be like people who are not even sure about themselves, and probably lack self-esteem issues. Michael Jackson was drugged every night to fall asleep, who knows he probably realized that the world has made him who he is and not who God wants him to be. Beyonce walks around trying too hard to be little miss perfect for the sake of humans instead of living a life for God, I cannot judge who she is but all I know is that with so much influence in the world I would tell the world about Jesus and how to love themselves and be content with themselves. Obsession over celebrities has cost a lot of heartache onto parents, siblings and friend, because people commit suicide like a young girls who committed suicide when Brenda Fassie died.

I have nothing against Beyonce, she is talented, and I like to blog her style and jam to some of her songs but I had to be real. I don't think Beyoncé wanted to be worshipped as a god, and we cannot blame her for people obsessing over her, but it is her duty to shift the obsession from herself to the Man upstairs.Don’t let the media make you, if there is anyone you should strive to be is to be like Jesus who is selfless, kind, loving, obedient and of great need to people, remember the order of life and what true JOY is>>> Jesus .Others. Yourself.This should be the order to living a fulfilling life.

 

 

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